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How RV Travel Changed Me

How More Than 3 Years of RV Travel Have Changed Me

How RV Travel Changed Me

We moved out of our Austin apartment and into our RV on February 21, 2014. Two days later, we started a radically different lifestyle of fulltime travel as we left Austin for our first adventure. At the time, we knew almost nothing about RVing, and we certainly didn’t know what to expect from our choice.

Coming up on three and a half years later, I’ve changed. It was noticeable when we returned to Hot Springs, Arkansas last week. It was like going home after your first semester of college–the scenery is the same, but you’re different.

If you’re wondering what this lifestyle could mean for you, hop into the RV Wanderlust time machine to see how time and travel can transform a life.

Unplugging —> Perspective

When we live in one area, it’s almost inevitable that we form a bubble around ourselves and emphasize whatever is closest at hand. This can mean different things for different people. For my own part, I tend to get anxious about commitments and whatever is coming up next. I’m definitely a people pleaser, so I struggle with caring a bit too much about my performance, choice of words, etc.

By unplugging and getting physical distance between myself and my work-related commitments that are centered in Austin, I gain a lot of perspective. Just because I’m on the road, doesn’t mean I slack off or stop caring about what I need to do. But I stop worrying about the details and how I need to “perform.”

Work Doesn’t Define Me Anymore

This has been perhaps the most profound change in my life since I started RV travel. I’ve stopped buying into the lie that what I do to earn a living defines who I am. Now, I view work as a means to an end, not an end in itself.

I used to have lofty aspirations about where I wanted to go with my career. I don’t anymore, and I feel absolutely no sense of loss. I still have goals, but I’m more concerned with increasing my free time to invest in my family and make memories.

Now when I’m asked, “What do you do?” my mind doesn’t leap to thoughts of work. What do I do? I live and travel fulltime in a 40-foot diesel RV, exploring national parks, historical sites, and the best restaurants in the nation, with my best friend and our son. It just so happens that I do some work on the side to fund our adventures.

I Go Out of My Way to Meet New People

I’m an introvert, meaning I get drained by spending time with (most) people, and I recharge through alone time. It’s not that I’m shy, but it does take time for me to open up to new friends and start to feel like myself. Before Eric and I started traveling, I was often resistant to social opportunities. But our lifestyle has changed me in this area. Now, I’m almost always eager to connect with other RVers who I’ve never met before.

Two reasons for this. First, it does eventually get lonely on the road when we aren’t around friends. But second, RVers are cool people. They share certain personality traits, like a love for adventure and a willingness to take risks. They make solid conversationalists.

We’re constantly using RVillage, the Xscapers group on Facebook, and our own Facebook and Instagram accounts, to find RVers in our area. We love reaching out, and we love when people reach out to us. In over three years, I could count on one hand the number of times we’ve had weird experiences meeting people. Much more often than not, friendships are instantly solidified as we skip over small talk to share funny stories, embarrassing moments, travel recommendations, and hopes for the future.

I Rethink My Assumptions

There are so many stratifying lines in our country. Depending on background, we all make assumptions (latent or otherwise) based on social class, region, race, religion, and politics. Let’s try an experiment to see whether I’m right. What do you think of when I mention Kentucky? What about South Texas? What about Wisconsin? What about New Jersey?

If you’ve been to any of those places, your previous assumptions were almost certainly challenged. Now multiply that over three years and almost every region in the nation. As I travel, I realize that multi-faceted people don’t deserve shallow labels. Everyone has a story that has made them who they are.

I Can’t Imagine Doing Anything Else

Those my age may remember MASH, a game I played when I was little that was supposed to playfully predict my future. The name stands for Mansion, Apartment, Shack, House–the first category in the game. “RV” wasn’t one of the options, and it certainly never occurred to me that I would one day call an RV my home.

Now, I can’t imagine doing anything else. When asked how long we’re going to travel fulltime, we say indefinitely. I literally cannot picture myself settling down…ever. It would take circumstances beyond my control to affect a change.

How Will the Next Three Years of RV Travel Change Me?

I can’t help wondering what the next three years will hold, and how I will be impacted as a person. I’m sure my perspective will be heavily influenced by my son Caspian, as he grows from baby, to toddler, to pre-school age. I can’t wait to see the world through his eyes.

All bets are off, but I have a good feeling about what comes next.

-B

Written by:
BrittanyHighland
Published on:
June 8, 2017
Thoughts:
10 Comments

Categories: RV Travel, Travel Tips

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Comments

  1. Jerry Minchey

    June 8, 2017 at 6:30 pm

    Brittany, You hit the nail on the head when you said, ” It was like going home after your first semester of college–the scenery is the same, but you’re different.” That statement describes the RVing lifestyle better than anything I’ve seen written.

    Reply
  2. Andrea Elkins

    June 10, 2017 at 12:35 am

    Ok I know it’s crass, but i want to hear about the handful of weird experiences! ?

    Reply
    • Brittany Highland

      June 12, 2017 at 10:49 pm

      Ask us in person next time. 😉

      Reply
  3. Sharon

    June 10, 2017 at 7:12 am

    Just wondering how you got from Montana to Washington without going through Idaho.

    Reply
    • Margie DeLancy Schlosser

      June 10, 2017 at 12:35 pm

      Lol

      Reply
    • Brittany Highland

      June 12, 2017 at 10:49 pm

      We did go through Idaho and it was a beautiful drive, but we only add states to our map when we spend a night there!

      Reply
  4. Sharon Eldridge Rasmussen

    June 10, 2017 at 7:19 pm

    Very well said Brittany. I too struggled with many of the same conflicting emotions in our first year of traveling full-time. Now, I actually look forward to “Trail Crossings” of fellow RV’rs because they totally get it. Thanks for sharing!

    Reply
  5. Russ Zosimus McFall

    June 16, 2017 at 2:46 am

    Great perspective, I am not full timing yet, but hope to in the near future. I am retired military and I remember saying more than once after moving around and leaving home. You can always go back home or your last base, but it will not be the same, when we stay or live in one place for a long time you and those around you grow in life at the same rate, but when one leaves the area and lives new experiences and their mind is expanded by new cultures you are a new person, those that are left behind are growing at their own pace but you have frog leaped over their experience thus going home is never the same or going back to some place you had been before it will always be a new experience. As you noted you are a different person and it seems that those you go back to are stuck in a time warp!

    Reply
    • Brittany Highland

      June 16, 2017 at 7:44 pm

      (Thanks for persevering with the commenting system.) Your insight is so true. All the best as you pursue the full-time lifestyle.

      Reply
  6. Awesum

    July 1, 2017 at 8:07 am

    Loved this write-up. I live vicariously …

    Reply

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